TY - BOOK AU - Gladwell,Malcolm TI - Talking to strangers: what we should know about the people we don't know SN - 9780316478526 AV - HM1106 .G585 2019 U1 - 302 GLA PY - 2019/// CY - New York, NY PB - Little, Brown & Co KW - Psychology, Applied KW - Strangers KW - Threat (Psychology) KW - Conduct of life KW - Miscellanea KW - Interpersonal relations KW - Trust KW - LANGUAGE ARTS & DISCIPLINES / Communication KW - bisacsh KW - fast KW - sears KW - Children and strangers KW - Informational works KW - lcgft N1 - Includes bibliographical references (pages 349-379) and index; Introduction : "Step out of the car!" -- Part I. Spies and diplomats : two puzzles. Fidel Castro's revenge ; Getting to know der Führer -- Part II. Default to truth. The queen of Cuba ; The holy fool ; Case study : The boy in the shower -- Part III. Transparency. The Friends fallacy ; A (short) explanation of the Amanda Knox case ; Case study : The fraternity party -- Part IV. Lessons. KSM : what happens when the stranger is a terrorist? -- Part V. Coupling. Sylvia Plath ; Case study : The Kansas City experiments ; Sandra Bland N2 - In this thoughtful treatise spurred by the 2015 death of African-American academic Sandra Bland in jail after a traffic stop, New Yorker writer Gladwell (The Tipping Point) aims to figure out the strategies people use to assess strangers-to "analyze, critique them, figure out where they came from, figure out how to fix them," in other words: to understand how to balance trust and safety. He uses a variety of examples from history and recent headlines to illustrate that people size up the motivations, emotions, and trustworthiness of those they don't know both wrongly and with misplaced confidence ER -